The Chaos Factor
Gunwitch method club.
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Hey everyone Gun here again…….
“Get ready for the motherfuckin new shit!”
A while back I set out to discover THE club/bar methods.
My Gunwitch methods and dynamic sex life book and audio course have taken street, party, social circle and otherwise non club and bar pick ups to extreme new heights of success, success that many said wasn’t possible for street pick ups.
Many do not like trying to pick up women outside of bars and clubs, which is a shame in my book, but more on this later.
Through many years now, and recent fresh new strategy and analysis in bar and club scene, as well as training guys to do bar and club pick ups I have developed some mindsets, action plans, tricks and tactics that will increase your success dramatically.
I had originally planned an in depth archetype of each club type and how to game her. As I looked back over the years and hit the club scene again with fresh analysis I realized one does not need to be that thorough, one only must understand some key points to take their success level in clubs up a few notches.
Most of this is for use in LARGE club and bar venues with lots of people and live or DJ music.
Lets get started in this.
First off we need to checklist the “OF COURSE” shit. Things from my books and audio, things from ANY source you must have down for this more advanced material to work for you.
You:
Dress normal or even flashy or whatever. Basically you aren’t looking like a dork for your own personal niche and venues.
You know women dig sex and want it. Either by logic or experience you know this.
You are relaxed around women physically and outcome wise. In other words women do not put you in to a nervous anxiety state and you are not obsessed with fuckin EVERY chick, and realize this is your SEX LIFE, not a quest to fuck EVERY chick.
Do not eject, you get rejected. You don’t run off from dead spots in conversations with women, you realize it is natural, you can stick in there. ESPECIALLY IN CLUBS AND BARS. Women in clubs and bars often have a knee jerk reaction to being approached. Sometimes this knee jerk or automatic reaction is to clam up and let you do the talking, other times it is to be a little bit snotty or make a verbal quip. Whatever the reaction though you must be past ejecting on your end and GET rejected before you will move on.
Finally you have the ability to sexually project and vibe, or get attraction rather than rapport going. Even more so if you do not understand the difference between attraction and rapport do not read any further.
Basics you must have there. Basics above are good enough to get you a good 1 in 20 club/bar women you approach in bed. That is not the goal of this here club method though. The goal here is to get a FULL understanding of the advanced methodology of the club beyond these common volume (approach enough ya get one in bed) methods, just as I did for daytime, street, and social circle game.
Right off we will discuss YOUR state and how it alters when you enter a club or bar or packed social event.
CHAOS FACTOR:
“I know all this stuff when at home but when in field it doesn’t come out”. – 95% of club pick up artists.
First and foremost you probably realize that you read this stuff online or listen to audio or analyze women and get a GREAT strategy, you have it figured out and go out in the field with it. BOOM that is all gone it seems? Eyes are on you? Women aren’t like they were in your mind and in your strategy or the materials you have absorbed?
“This is the really real world!”
Surely it is different. In model? In facts? In logic? No, but in that you have entered an altered state of mind compared to when you took on the models of things in the comfort of your home and relaxation.
OR
The material is real, but when you took it on mentally and how you are at the moment in this social place are quite different.
The thoughts of
“Hell Gun isn’t a great looking guy and he fucks women the same day he meets them, I can also, I just need to act different than I usually do!”
Turns in to a feeling of
“This chick is moving around, shit her eyes met mine, what did that mean, Gun is little black letters, her, she, she, she is real, should I go tell her some jokes and play the clown like I usually do, that is at least comfortable”Not good. I am willing to bet you do just this. You fall in to the same old behavior patterns of failure out of desire to be comfortable, to feel in control.
As I mentioned in Dynamic Approach Often times a guy will lock up and refuse to approach women at all because he associates it with the anxiety of not knowing what to do in a female presence.
The way to reframe this is a simple 2 step process:
1.Realize what is happening. Realize your own self and state right then and there in the club or bar. Realize that what is true and logic and fact is always true, no matter what your state of mind is.
2.Realize the women and other people as FIRST individuals and second as similar to others you know. Some chick standing there seemingly alien and unlike you is JUST AS normal as your last girlfriend or chick you laid was BEFORE you met her. Realize that she is in fact herself also in an altered state of mind just as you were until you realized it, because of this massive social scene.
As corny and children’s novel as it may sound “Strangers are just friends you haven’t met yet” comes to mind.
Actually try imposing the image of a friend or lover on to strangers in the bar. Imagine them as they may be once you get to know them and how different they are from regular day-life in this place.
Basically realize you are in a jumbled chaotic state, but yet truth is truth of what works and what doesn’t and also realize others are not in this state of mind.
Much like that movie the matrix, they have not freed their mind of it and are still a part of it. You however are not by simple virtue of understanding this first concept.