When you change yourself and your outlook on women, it will no doubt change your life. However this is not everything on your life. It will not make or break you as a person. It is a part that will mean nothing if it consumes you and the rest of your life lays bare and fruitless.
As well as if you doing well, improving your life and all of a sudden as a lazy conforming man or as desperation move you stop and conform. You can be the extreme alpha and push on with your game that it will take over your life and make you happy. Or be a flash in the pan alpha and do it until you find a girl suitable and that meets your standards and slack off afterwards. This is worse because you’ll just end up becoming a shadow of your former alpha self and resent your partner. You see being good with women is not the be all and end all in life. But to have this aspect of your life covered with lay a foundation of potential and confidence to improve and make the rest of your days happier as well as knowing you are alpha male and can do what you set your mind to.
(Remember one important thing, men hunt and women trap)
The biggest kryptonite men have is their sex drive and what sex does to them. Don’t let the sex turn your mind to mush, that will intoxicate your man hood.
Let’s face it, we tend to settle and become Mr. Lazybones and why not, it’s in our society’s make up and standards and seems like the right move. If we put on our game and landed a really hot, smart women and we are in alpha sexual relationship with her, we can easily be mistaken for stopping and being less driven and motivated. We will stop going out and pursuing our future and being completely alpha and expanding our alpha ways. She’s hot and you’re sleeping with her. Why on earth would you ever leave the bedroom?
Well for this reason of it’s taken 3, 5 or 6 months to be the great magnet that sucks in beautiful women. It’s become a part of your life. So you’ve inflated this temporary aspect of life. If you slack off, it will fade away and become a distant part of your life, a very good memory. You need to let it flow into your entire life. This can only happen by being an Alpha for so long that you don’t know any other way.
Once you are surrounded by beautiful women, you will not fear being alone, most men rush and marry the girl they have for a fear of a life alone and need to spread their seed. But when you are an alpha and have choices and are not needy, you won’t be desperate and marry the next girl that comes along. You’ll flow as a single man, growing your life in all directions and paths.
Women thrive and in all fairness survive with this fear. They need a man to feel that he has to marry and settle. They need it to fulfill their genetic code, if every man knew that his life belongs to him and not a path he has to conform to.
That it is ok not to marry and have kids as a rule. They’d be in trouble. Men resent and women are undeniably attracted to a man who follows his own path. Because with everything in life. Beautiful women can color and make your life more fulfilling or can hamper it by comforming you to other ways and methods. You need to do it your way and follow your own path. Because being the alpha male is better than the sum of its parts.
Good stuff.
Natural comes from experience not from philosophy. If natural is to distinguish from a person who just recites routines well that never works for anybody anyway so it’s irrelevant.
Cheers,
Matt from Brad P fansite
http://www.bradp.info
I, for one, stopped cousimnng most of what Hollywood put out years ago. I watch a drama or suspense movie here and there, but by and large, I have no more desire to watch almost anything coming out in theaters these days. I’m definitely not one of the morons who actually thought that any of those movies that are listed above were “good” movies (and I definitely didn’t pay to go to see any of them).That’s not to say that I don’t watch movies, though. I’ve found that foreign films, especially out of China, are becoming better and better. Movie-makers from developing countries – where masculinity is, whether rightly or wrongly or sadly in its effect, still revered – have this tendency, in my opinion, to spend more time developing characters, and certainly seem to pay more attention to developing more-appealing male characters (they definitely aren’t a bunch of sniveling bitches who can’t do anything right to save their lives). I don’t know if it’s because the studios in those countries haven’t yet figured out that they can make more money if they dumb-down the movies so that they’ll appeal more to shallow, moronic, ADHD-having Americans who wouldn’t know good acting to save their lives or because they actually care about the quality of their movies, but they are definitely, in my opinion, much better than almost anything coming out of the US these days.The director of the Honk Kong movie Ip Man, for example, succeeded in combining good action scenes with good character development and a good plot, something that few American action movie directors have done (you, Missred, may think Armageddon was a great movie, but I’d be willing to bet that there are plenty of people out there who actually care about the quality of what they’re watching who thought that the movie was terrible for many good reasons (sure, it had great special effects and a star-studded cast – including a blubbering Ben Affleck – and is, if you’re looking for cheap thrills, fun to watch, but the character development sucked about as much as the plot did (which is true of just about all disaster movies made in America))).
The idea that words cannot iecnulnfe your instincts is the absurd one. As you now read my post, you feel an urge to show value, an urge to prove your dominance over the outside of yourselves by talking me out of my nonsense. Everything goes back to power. Affirming what you affirm, you are also ignoring the milennia of storytelling, even in sole written form — which still evokes emotions despite no acting involved. The more I think about your reasoning, the more laughable it gets! Language is a tool for communication, which pervades living existence. I will not plunge further into linguistics, but you both are making language transcendent, extracting it from emotional response and experience. Thinking about it, I feel excluded from human race: in hindsight, I shouldn’t have held my breath while reading Henry James or gotten angry when people insulted my family, after all, those were only words, weren’t they? Words convey intentions. And that’s what people are looking for when you open your mouth. In other words, you can never be sure that she wouldn’t fall for him anyway even without all that seduction patterns. Are you prepared to deny all psychology? Are you prepared to deny causality? People like other people through some process, as much as a box is built by obeying some methods. If you are able to repeat the same movements, provided you are using the same materials, you will get the same results. One box may end up loose and fragile, as you are not very skilled in the beginning, but now you know how to do it; you must now develop coordination to perform the task more smoothly. Some tasks are more complex, others are not that much, but everything has a determining factor, a cause. Produce that cause, and you will see the expected outcome.
Hey man, cool stuff! I’d just like to add that the key to creating a dream seduction and dating lifestyle is in knowing what kinds of women we click with and what we really want from them. That way we’ll be able to easily find compatible women that we can reinforce our core happiness with.
Once you’re totally happy and fulfilled with your life and your current relationships, not only will you be able to naturally attract more women but also you’ll be able to apply your alpha lifestyle and your alpha traits in any other area of your life.
Bruno Babic
PickUpFlow – An Enjoyable Experience Of Effortlessly Attracting Women And Making Them Chase You