This is my current ‘statement of affirmations’ I read this aloud (with passion) before PU and other times when I get the chance as a reminder of who I am, what I do, and why I am successful.
Street PU does not start when you hit the streets. That is a middle step. Rather, PU starts before that, in the preparation phase.
The very first phase, is definition of attitude, and affirmation:
I talk about left/right brain stuff in it a bit. Basically idea is that emotion and passion come from the right, and logic comes from the left.
Below is the first step:
Ok, here we go:
(A)TTITUDE/CONFIDENCE! [you will EVERY DAY, PU or NOT, do this statement of ATTITUDE!]
Stage 0: Statement of BELIEF!
-You believe, and incorporate the following statement into your core being because
THEY ARE ALL TRUE!
-As you read them, they will go inside you, and become a part of YOU! Each time, you read them, say them outloud, they are MORE a part of YOU, and CANNOT be taken AWAY!
Stage 1: Clear mind, lose fear
-You will kill the AFC inside you, that polite/serious “nice guy”, is fading..fading..gone!
-You will relax!
-Wake up right brain
-Play fucking loud techno/other music (will allow right brain to break through left’s block)[I like “Techno Mix USA; tracks 6,7,8.. it is just OVERPOWERING!]
-Go someplace you can talk to yourself/pump yourself up without place/time stress
-Your right brain will LEAD the left brain from here on out
– The left brain will assist in logical thinking during PU, but the CONFIDENCE, LEADERSHIP, and ENERGY of the right brain means that right brain will LEAD from now on!
-you are relaxing, right brain is awaking from his sleep and is becoming free to lead!!
-PU is a game.. it is practice, an experiment to see how far you can lead achick, how quickly
Subject: Statement of Affirmation!
-You will convey your words with ATTITUDE, and PASSION, because this is what you BELIEVE in. You are SURE you are right, you KNOW you can PU and ROCK chicks, because you are PREPARED. Because of that, you can work NON STOP with CONVICTION, and PASSION and ATTITUDE!
Stage 2: Statements of FACT / Build ATTITUDE [remember these important points!]
-You are UNSTOPPABLE!, like the terminator!, you WILL NOT STOP, and NOTHING phases you!
-You make NO excuses for your desires as a man!
-You are 50 feet tall
-YOU are an ASF master because you have STUDIED, EXPERIENCE, have PRACTICED, and are very much more PREPARED than any AFC’s out there!
-Because you are an ASF master, and are prepared, you will RULE tonight!
-YOU RULE over all the other AFC’s and losers out tonight!
-They are NOT competition to you, because they are NOT prepared!
-You only competition is your fear, and you will DEFEAT fear, because the right brain is unstoppable!
-You call bullshit and will turn on a dime when bullshit is tried!
-You ALWAYS keep your cool, unless you lose it intentionally to shake up a chick
-You take nothing for granted and CONFIRM everything by offering her a choice and a chance(ie. she is busy, not interested, excuses, BF)
-You will CALL all her excuses, and find a away AROUND them jujitsu style!
-You will take NOTHING as sacred (you dont worry about what any ONE chick does/rejects)
-You will be POSITVE, but realize ‘its only a game’ cynically!
-You will NOT be phased by FAILURE, you will CRUSH it IMMEDIATELY, by REPLACINGfailure with IMMEDIATE and SUBSEQUENT effort, resulting in SUCCESS!
-Visible attitude, eyebrows up ‘ooh’ its a chick!, lets see what we can do with her!
Stage 3: Re-affirmation of what you KNOW women WANT, and NEED from YOU!
-You are a PUA, prepared, and with SKILL on how to ROCK a chick SEXUALLY, and EMOTIONALLY!
-She needs you MORE than you need her, because SHE is REPLACEABLE, a commodity, and you are NOT! You are a RARE commodity, one who can ROCK a chick!
Subject: Statement of Affirmation!
-If she rejects you, she will be punished by spending the night ALONE, or with an INFERIOR man!
-If she is smart, and you CONVEY PERSONALITY and STRENGTH, you are DESTINED to SUCCEED!
-It is OBVIOUS women WANT to be seduced!
-It is OBVIOUS women WANT excitement!
-You are one of the FEW who can offer HER that excitement which she wants tonight!
-It is OBVIOUS women WANT adventure!
-You are one of the FEW who can offer HER that adventure which she wants tonight!
-It is even more OBVIOUS that YOU are more qualified and more capable than all the AFCs out there tonight to GIVE her that excitement and adventure!
-YOU are the ticket to that chick’s pleasure, excitment and fun tonight!
-You WILL show chicks that they need your excitment and sex… BECAUSE IT IS TRUE!!
-It is CERTAIN that any lady out there NEEDS it from YOU!
-It is also CERTAIN that she will be so GLAD after you did!
-Chicks who are SMART will accept the gift you are offering her!!
-Only chicks who DESERVE you and are SEXY enough, and SMART ENOUGH to recognize what YOU bring will be able to get you!
-You TOWER OVER chicks. You DOMINATE them COMPLETELY. They CANNOT SHAKE YOU, they CANNOT phase you!
Stage 4: Statement of Objective (to YOURSELF)
-The purpose of this evening is to GAIN SKILL! Because you are gaining skills, and trying NEW techniques, which you have PREPARED FOR, you will learn and DEVELOP, and REPORT on the and IMPROVE on them! That is the PURPOSE of the evening!
-Tonight is an ADVENTURE! You do not know how the night will end, but because of your preparation, it WILL be EXCITING and NEW! You will OVERCOME ALL FEAR, and CRUSH anything before, or inside you which is in the way of your GOAL!
-If you meet a PUA who is better than you, you will NOT fear him! Instead you will study him, practice HARDER, and become LIKE HIM!
-When stuck or faced with new situations, you will remember that the goal is to OFFER adventure, and excitement to the chick. You will allow left brain to think of ideas, but right brain will LEAD, and DIRECT the PU, with ATTITUDE, and CONVICTION.
-Life is full of amazing experiences, one adventure at a time!
Subject: Statement of Affirmation!
-You do NOT only pickup girls, you invite them on rewarding adventures of pleasure which only YOU can give them!
-You are looking for ADVENTURE, and an adventure PARTNER to share it with!
-You will do PU, and structure opportunities and offer challenges!
-You will ASSIST the chick in taking you up on those OPPORTUNITIES!
-You ARE desireable, and it is the job of the chick to SHOW YOU why she deserves you!
Stage 5: Reaffirmation!
-You will read the above 3 times, and state it (shout it) aloud to yourself each time and internalize it. (if you just read it, right brain will not hear it, and it wont work)
-By rereading aloud and reaffirming the above, it empowers you to do a PU..RIGHT NOW!!
-If you are not confident or lose confidence, go back and reread/reshout!!
-Go expose yourself to people (shopping, whatever) for 30 minutes
-Do eye contact practice, get chicks to eye you back
-Say ‘Hi’ to 3 chicks out there (Svengali warm up)
-Do this EVERY DAY, whether PU’ing, or NOT!
-Now GO!! **NOW**!