Short-Circuiting through Contraction
One of the two most common ways I see men shut down from the intense sensations that arise when relating with women is Contraction. By Contraction I mean you …
Author: Bristol Lair
Phone Guidelines
Juggler’s phone technique – this will help some guys who have difficulties over the telephone. 1. No matter who answers the phone announce who you are, “Hi this is …
Swinggcat on Phone Game
How To Talk To Women Over The Phone… I get a lot of questions about talking to women over the phone. Instead of answering each one individually I thought …
Phone Game
Now when it comes to the idea that “if a girl disrespects me I’ll NEXT her”, that isn’t my frame at all. To me, you can’t NEXT a girl …
Compliments
There is a right and a wrong way to give compliments to girls. In fact, there is a way that is very very right, and a way that is …
Creating Rapport
She has to FEEL you two are soulmates, like she has known you forever. When it happens fast, you will hear the following from her: “Oh my God I …
Body Language
Let’s talk a little bit about body language and how it relates to your attitude and confidence. We all know that people communicate with each other on multiple levels. …
Looks Do Matter
When it comes to the topic of looks with women, most guys are usually clueless and confused. They tend to think in extremities: you either need to look like …
Speed Dating
Here are my thoughts after running about a dozen speed dating nights, and going to 4 myself. Speed Dating is a great way to bypass ‘Find’ and ‘Meet’ while …
Pickup Opening Theory
In the field the number one problem I see with newbie (and some not so new) PUAs is the inability to open sets. If you can’t open a set, …