When it comes to the topic of looks with women, most guys are usually clueless and confused. They tend to think in extremities: you either need to look like Brad Pitt to pickup decent looking women, or you can look like a homeless and still get laid.
The truth is in-between.
I’m sure you have seen model-looking guys with hot women and thought she must have only been with him because of his looks. On the contrary, you might have also seen butt-ugly guys with the hottest girls, which left you wondering. To understand the situation better, let’s talk about the details of your first interaction with a girl.
As psychologists say, people will have formed a firm opinion about you within the first 30 seconds or 1 minute of meeting you. This is especially true for women. How can you make a good impression on people? With your looks and with your attitude. (body language, eye-contact, words)
And here comes the most protected dirty little secret of seduction gurus:
When a woman checks you out, she will not look at your face. She will look at your shoes and check whether they are polished or not. She will look at your nails and see if they are long or dirty. She will look at your clothes to see whether they are clean or not, how they go together with your image/personality and what they communicate. Having a style that is also consistent with your personality is one of the most important things.
You are a man and you will look at a girl’s breasts, check out her ass and see if she has a baby face. But women always look at the big picture and the way you come off from the first second of meeting you. She will picture herself in her head with you together and think what people would say about her if she went out with you.
Women are self-validation junkies, they are constantly looking for the approval of other people and you will be another piece of this puzzle as well. Girls don’t want a man on their side who doesn’t know how to look or behave.
Thus the first step towards improving your success is fixing your looks.
You might say that your looks is something you can’t change. This is dead wrong. You don’t need plastic surgery to improve your looks by at least 2 points on a scale from 1 to 10. All you need is to be neat, tidy and to have some style.
If you have big red acne on your face, get proper treatment. If your hair is greasy and long, wash it and get a stylish haircut. If you dress like a nerd, go to the local shopping center and get some new clothes. You don’t have to spend a million bucks on clothes; style doesn’t mean dressing expensively, it means dressing fashionably. If you are too thin, put on some muscle. If you are fat, get on a diet.
Do you catch what I’m saying? Just by taking care of yourself a little bit, you can leave a much better impression on people and the women you interact with.
To summarize it, your looks matter as long as you don’t care about it. As soon as you get that handled, girls won’t care whether you look like Brad Pitt or not. As long as you have the proper attitude of course. And that is what I’ll talk about in my next article. Stay tuned.
honestly when i read articles like this i want to laugh my head off. lelaritly. it drives me crazy how frustrated i get when i read the articles posted by the ever growing evangelical conservative Muslim fringe living in the west. it gives you an idea of how disconnected they are with the reality of the Muslim east. i’ve plenty of women in my country who never raise a voice, who watch as they’re sold off at the age of 15 to 50 year old men under the guise of Islamic marriage, perpetrated by a male Muslim imam who defends it as sunnah. i watch as they grow up uneducated while their brothers go out and see the world. i watch as their husbands force themselves upon them and get them to keep producing babies till she has his fill of sons, and beat them if they have daughters. and i watch as how after decades of oppression, they scream out at last, and then watch as they have their faces burnt off their skulls with acid. after all they defiled the Earth’ principle they stood up to their Gods. and after this i see you publish these articles. it makes me shake with rage. trust me if i wasn’t afraid this comment would get deleted, i’d have directed more than a few choice words at the imam’. wake up. the Muslim world is hell for women. women are slain everyday in the name of honor, seemingly for disobeying Islam and breaking out of their place. this article does nothing but sugarcoat a ghastly truth, like a murderer wearing a sweet mask. to all the Muslim women, you don’t know how lucky you are that you ended up in a place where feminism has fought its war, or you’d truly realize just what it is to live under Islamic’ marriage laws. to all Muslims who live in the west. take a deep breath and learn to appreciate and give thanks for the bliss you are in. the west has its problems but that is nothing compared to the problems of the Muslim world. heck, most rich Muslim countries are only rich because of hydrocarbons that help melt our polar ice caps. they export petrol and naught else, and even that only due to the machinery and technical knowhow of the west. be loyal to your governments and not to the ummah, for there is none, and you are certainly not part of it. be thankful to Allah that you do not live in a Muslim majority country.btw its all good to live in rich countries and say we should have more children. try living in a third world village and then you’ll understand why they ask us to use birth control.
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