Every time ask yourself when I leave a set, have I just run a bunch of routines? Or have I conveyed a MASSIVELY ATTRACTIVE personality to a chick, who will now want to chase me?
Are you an accountant, or a computer programmer? NO.. FUCK THAT! 🙂
You are not your job. You are not your khakis! 😉
If you’re interested in doing clubs, figure out a self-image that is attractive to girls, but also CONGRUENT to your TRUE personality. Then focus on creating a 20 minute game plan to convey that to a group, that will have the target girl wanting to meet you by the end of it.
Is your image:
exciting?
dangerous?
social proofed?
romantic/poetic?
fascinating?
-(I’m sure there’s others I’ve missed)
If not, then TAILOR an image that is, and learn a way to convey it that is COOL..
Ask yourself: “IF I WERE TO APPROACH MYSELF, WHEN I WAS HANGING WITH MY FRIENDS, WOULD I APPRECIATE THE PERSON THAT I AM TAKING OVER MY GROUP, OR WOULD I THINK THAT I’M LAME?”
Don’t just focus on memorizing material. Think about what the material is DOING for you.
Are you a COOL guy when you’re in the club? Can you CONVEY that consistently?
Is canned material HELPING you to do this, or is it making you sound REHEARSED?
For me, a lot of the stuff that I made up on my own, it gets TIGHTER and SHARPER every time that I use it.. But a lot of stuff that I field test, it gets WORSE and WORSE every time that I use it, because I don’t really like it, and get more bored of using it every time that I try it.
Other stuff that I’ve read from other people, I LOVE to use.
Zan: “you’re my new GF”
Kooper: C&F frames
Swingcat: qualifying
Badboy: are you rich?
CPowles: hands off the merchandise, and millions of little liens he has
So basically, I run this shit, but also I SATURATE the set with my own PERSONAL details.. carefully SELECTED details, that will ATTRACT chicks.
This is one of the things that goes so badly wrong with guys in the community. They see someone doing something successfully and just think that if they ape their mannerisms without understanding why that person was successful, then they will have their own success.
It’s just not true. It’s not the case that wearing goggles and a furry hat makes Mystery get laid. They add to what he is trying to convey. If you’re a quiet retiring IT technician and you’re strolling around like you’re Mystery you’re not going to get laid because your whole image makes no sense. You are not conveying you.
Equally, if I hate magic and think it’s stupid but do palm reading and coin tricks then I’m not conveying my personality. Routines don’t work because they are routines – and hence there’s not much point stealing someone else’s routines – they work because of what they convey.