Essential guide of proper analysis and Internal dynamics
Now we will build you “body”
The faulty, unnatural conditioning you have received from society and the seduction community can be deprogrammed, and should be as you use the inference vs. induction/modeling willpower stunt. Willpower should be in use by you to stop thoughts of deducted models of other people now as you read this and are challenged. Willpower will be used to rid yourself of all habits of thought that are faulty when recognized. THEN they will be replaced by not only the basic first fact way of reasoning but the basic first facts you must understand of what it is to be a natural man in thought and inner core.
I will lay these out. Read them, understand them and take them on as basic first facts of your new inner beliefs. In these I digress from total perfect logic. These are ideals. This is the software here, it need not be perfect and completely accurate. These are your new “models” and ways of thinking. Maybe not all FACT, but they become fact by believing them. These are:
#1: Women love sex. Unless biologically stunted in her privates or a lesbian she will love sex with men. Ahhh key is being a man, not a boy or feminine. The natural man knows this desire for sex is there and acts on it for mutual gratification. Sex is a natural thing that happens between you and a woman. It is not a battle or conquest. It is animal lust.
#2: Natural mans picture of himself is not as a boy: Soft living and pampering, from womb to coffin we are given. We are saved when we need saving and listened to when we cry. Natural man doesn’t have this perception anymore. He thinks “me” he doesn’t think he is young or a child or a boy. He sees himself as a man. You are an adult a grown up. Act accordingly. Don’t be crying about shit, somebody didn’t fuckin drop dead, don’t be crying. Don’t be hanging on women like they are your mother. There’s 500 of em to many to list. Its called not being a PUSSY ass little boy. You get your “sun” these things don’t happen as much anyways. Still be aware of thinking like a MAN and an adult, not something weak or helpless.
#3: Other men are not superior to you. Natural man would have none of this. Get your sun in place and it’ll come. To offend another man is to possibly have to fight. All it means to offend another man. SO WHAT. You don’t giggle when AMOG makes a joke at your expense, he doesn’t like that? TOO bad, you are MALE, you can and will compete for respect. People used to like it when you made jokes about yourself? TOO bad, they’ll get eye contact from you now, not jokes and you giggling at the floor. You aren’t looking for trouble, but you aren’t gonna avoid it either less its REAL fuckin dangerous. Even then, that gangbanger with the gun in his waistband who’s house you ended up at might just shoot you for being a little wimpy punk ass when you talk about “I’m such a tight ass square white boy”. And know that you ain’t gonna giggle enough or be passive enough to get out of that basement in el Salvador where you’ve just landed the lead role in a forced donkey on man sex act. So be a MAN and don’t look for trouble OR try to avoid it, especially while its happening. Natural man is no victim. You don’t have to be either.
#4: You don’t take any shit from anyone with a smile. Usually you wont take any shit at all, but if you are backed in to a corner hands tied and your balls in a vice, you don’t grin and bear it, you just bear it. You do this because you have an imaginary audience, this life you are living is the movie, you are the main character. This life is no comedy, you take life seriously when serious situations arise. You are the leading man in every story. You only take the scripts that suit you. You MUST live up to this audience, your entire self is watching. Living anyway or anything else? Pffffffft. That’s when you aren’t so serious and are just making a cameo appearance as a big time leading man in some stupid comedy. Passing through.
#5: Sexual state. You feel it, you know its there. You SURELY don’t think its wrong! You know its natural. Its what she feels in a different way as well. Once the sun has risen, this sexual state will BURN in you, to be obsessed with it would not be unmanly or unnatural. It is your other being. It is in fact from the testosterone a sort of survival persona, at the procreation level. Testosterone will give you this survival mechanism to drive your aggression and persistence in mating and competition with other men.
#6: You’re gonna forget about “swingers” and “Tao of Steve” and “Don Juan Demarco” as PU movies, they are now only entertainment. You don’t use induction, ESPECIALLY fictional induction. Watch the movie “predator” with Arnold swarzenegger. See the order of masculinity in actions and interactions PU wise. Far as being a male. Who of them would get the best women for what they looked like? Indian tracker guy(little much, pretty much below Arnold because of it) and Arnold (right way to be), 2 black guys (both pretty standard), Jesse Ventura and grenade launcher guy (amog/AFC types looking to impress and cackling over stupid jokes), guy with glasses ALWAYS giggling around and being a goof. Predator kills them in roughly that order for sport. Also watch the scene with the Indian tracker, he gets fed up, throws off all his shit takes out his knife and waits on the path for the predator tired of being hunted. If you cant see that as a real tearjerker lol, you are WAY too conditioned by this passive society. I only mention this as off the wall as it sounds as I remember about 87 or so when this came out. After having watched it in a deep zone in, really identifying with the characters was the first time I felt like a man in my whole life. Have MALE, masculine role models. Yeah watch Seinfeld or MASH and laugh and enjoy it, but don’t think just cause Jerry and George have a new woman written in each week they are good role-models. Not saying a guy who acts like that cannot get laid, just that he wont get laid as much or by the women he really wants.
#7: You know women and men are not from different planets. Socially which we will get to later there can be variables. But basic first fact is that biologically men and women are MUCH alike. Any thoughts of “women think different from men” are squashed out instantly. You conform to the bare minimum of social differences and her conditioning to have the mutual sexual experience. You do not harp on the differences of men and women in your mind. People walking around the planet, living eating and fucking. Humans from earth. Not creatures from Mars and Venus cast in some battle of wills. That’s book selling talk, not reality.
Read these, know these. Comprehend them til you get a certain sense of satisfaction and take them away with you. You may need to develop your sun before the body can begin to shape up though. HAH!, FINALLY we come to the sun and body business. The finale. Your shadow.
You see the sun casts the power and energy, the testosterone and sense of power thrusts a light out hitting your body, your body (the beliefs and ideals you hold and that are intellectualized) will be the position you take to allow the sun to cast a shadow. You see you can have a BRIGHT burning sun, just right all perfect. But if you are standing sideways you wont cast the full shadow.
Basically you can have all the chemistry right from your lifestyle, but if you are still thinking like a fuckin moron about hyper analytical concepts and dynamics between you and her, or doing stupid behaviors that are the anathema of your “sun” because you believe they are the right way to think? You’ll cast a half ass shadow, or persona. For in depth shadow example coming from the same sun and body, Look at GWM1 of course.
But in general if you take the mindsets (body section) and place them in direct correlation with the suns beams (the chemistry and testosterone) the shadow you cast will be PERFECT. Or about 90% but hey nobodies perfect. Anyone who says the can make you so should be put on a cult watch list. Its eating the fruit not trying to get the vitamins out of it in pill form again. You simply must relax and enjoy being a natural man, enjoy the feelings of being a man, and enjoy strong mindsets and ideals that are in synch with it. You’ll move more confidently in body, you’ll look people in the eyes when you speak and not break eye contact first, you’ll touch women when it feels right, you’ll stand closer to her and get even closer as she warms up, you’ll talk in a better voice, slower more calm and sexy, you’ll party harder and have a good time cause you wont have underlying fear of what others will think if you let loose, you’ll deal with drama better, you’ll deal with loss and rejection better. You’ll have to jerk off 3 times in a row to get writing like this done because sitting in one place with no stimulation but your own mind and thoughts for this long will drive you CRAZY! Yet aside from that you will think clearer under pressure, which is much more important than being able to write a bunch of shit like this in the real world. In all you just become one sexy motherfucker.
A natural man just gets laid no matter what right? Not always. Problems come up. Of the social kind basically repellants that must be quelled, and a few attractants that can be helped or used to advantage. Surely society and fear of judgment can bias a woman’s determination to have sex with you or not. Only the most outstanding of minds can usually totally drop the social cognition, or the perception of what others will think of any given action. We must at least “pass” the repulsors, and maybe use the attractants to social advantage.
Now we will explore them. Please remember as well I am in north America, and watch American TV, movies and media. Some of these may surely not fit for your region. As well take note that none of these factors will really get you laid all on their own, you must have the biological attractants in place, THEN these will supplement you as attractants, or stop you cold in the case of repulsors.
Attractant: Height. This may at first glance appear a biological attractant I’ve misplaced. It is in fact not . Height is a social and never biological attractant. Proof? Well how is height gauged? Against other heights of course. If ALL men shrunk 5 inches tomorrow there would be no decline in sexual activity amongst the human species (if we weren’t aware of it of course and scrambling WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED!?). You see but if ALL men gained 30 lbs of body fat sexual activity would decrease. Therefore it is a social not biological drive as it is judged against other people, NOT an instant biological fact. What to do to with it? Surely a crowd setting is an asset if you are taller as you can have a ruler for her to gauge you against.
Repellant: Short to Average height? Stay away from the tall guys. When you cut through crowds of people pick a group that is shorter to cut through for a better ruler. Buy some boots to get a bit above average height,. Unless hand selected to be shorter than you, a wingman or party scene of guys is not ideal either.
Attractant: GREAT grooming. Not just being clean and non smelly or unkempt. I mean the same things I talked about in the facial looks category. Properly tailored or fitting clothes to accentuate your best assets, right beard and hair combos, right no hair or beard combos, clean nails and good skin. Socially acceptable grooming of the highest degree.
Repellant: POOR grooming. Should be obvious but don’t be all fucked up looking. Going from first basic facts you can watch television and see what socially acceptable grooming is on a man. Do not use induction here as you have NO idea what looks good. You may as I seen on MTV think “I don’t want my hair all spiky” so you paste it down with grease to both sides. Do not do this. Do not wear big coke bottle glasses cause “nerd is in and different”. A Mohawk and 25 gold chains when a woman uttered near a clueless man “Mr.T is sexy” has probably happened. Get with it, wear normal human males socially acceptable styles, haircuts and accessories. Watch one episode of ANYTHING but drew Carey show or M.A.S.H ilk , and you’ll find something reasonable. Cut the hair out of your nose that hangs, and wash your balls. Your hirsute is probably not gonna be a big attractant for her, and will probably repel her, so tone it down.
Attractant: Style. What I mean here is an offshoot of the above. Same deal be IN STYLE somewhat for your region and targets. nly MORE. Peacocking is no big secret so ill talk about it. In a setting such as a club or bar where style and standing out can “cut through the chaos” and get you noticed it is a great social attractant. Thing is, use inference not induction. DO NOT wear pink leather pants cause you seen some guy get laid wearing them. You are a redhead with pale skin, it’ll look like “strawberry quik” let out their fuckin mixing brush for a night on the town. Have common sense and do something congruent yet noticeable and “standoutish” on YOU. I myself have worn leather vest and ass-less chaps, kidding about the ass-less chaps. I will wear leather vest with tight white under tank top for a shirt with some jewelry . Kind of bland for some scenes I’m sure, but I’m in a smaller town where this is HUGE peacocking. Use discretion. Of course being in a niche market AND with creative enough garb is a GREAT social attractant/get you noticed deal. Example: At a western party everyone is in traditional country western multi colored garb. You are in all black with black overcoat all western style. Underneath you reveal much the same. You are “in” niche wise as it is western wear, as well as standing out for being different.
Repellant: Being socially/style wise “OUT”. I forget who wrote it but I seen this example someplace else, tell me who you are and ill give you credit. You are in khakis and a polo shirt with leather loafers? It is a gothic style rave dance. Enough said. No chick wants to go home with the 90210 reject when she wants some kind of vampire wanna be.
Attractant: Isolation in conjunction with biological factors. Her fuckin friends. Them damn people watching all over the place she used to know. Things like this raise her social conditioning. No woman wants to be thought of as a slut. Rapport is harder to obtain when her focus is off of you and on reading everyone in the places minds with her imagination. So the lesseyes on you from first basic facts, the better. First basic facts 2. She is not going to have sex with you in public view, FULL isolation is a must for a sexual attempt. From the start to deal with these problems arising you can approach lone women in department stores or use many social dynamics methods (gone FAR enough in to detail on FS already) in clubs to get in with her group and isolate her from the group. Very technical issue. Suffice to say I recommend approaching LONE women in non night club settings. Anyplace else is a better bet.
Repellant: All eyes on you/her social conditioning not doing the biological points and speaking to her and/or her friends or close “knowns” right there with no social attractants in place. Basic stuff. This is the “BLOWN OUT” repellant though, This is the one you hear the horror rejection stories from guys because of. Come up stinking like a cat terd and talking to her infront of her friends! You must LOVE rejections.
Attractant: Similar values or ideas.
Repellant: Opposite values or ideas. This is “social rapport” where as the biological was “fear based quelling” rapport techniques. Basic social rapport is picking your battles. People only argue and fight and butt heads then end up fucking in the movies and camp trailers parked on campground spaces as a first home. Any other time this “opposites attract” business is bullshit fictional induction based seduction theory. Simple, Social attractants are being “liked” and accepted, people like people like them and accept those with similar values. This may be incredibly hard to swallow as its probably never been written anyplace before. It hasn’t in self help because it isn’t sexy enough to sell a coffee cup, much less a John Grey 1000 dollar spectacular Caribbean weekend. He’s gotta make up something more controversial to your mental frames to say. Unless she is going against your core beliefs don’t start a whole thing. Even then debate skills and diplomatic skills are in order, not a blow up or cuss out. She says she loves Eminem the rapper and you think he’s a bitch mouth little asshole, well, you ain’t got something nice to say don’t say it at all. Change the subject.
Repellant: Verbalizing sexual things. Or pick up lines or lewd behavior. INSTANT turning on of her social conditioning to a factor of 10. Besides doing so will “let it out” in a way as a natural sexual man. You wanna be that “subtle sexy man” women try to verbalize in 3 words as everything I’ve written here as “what they desire”. You don’t wanna be the guy who lets it all out with words and behaviors of lewd and immature nature and disposition and has nothing left to project out. Its like laying down flat on the ground and humping your own shadow, nothing left to project, you are just fucking yourself. MANY MANY MANY more social repulsors out there. Too many to list and go in depth on. You can use your inference skills on these remaining list of obvious basics as well as more in the future. CAREFULLY however to use inference on any new problem not induction. Only once the basic conclusion from first facts has been drawn and applied with success do you being to deduce anything. Some conscious dead set things she thinks outright as repellants or attractants: Why is digging in ones anus or picking ones nose and wiping it on their shirt in front of a woman a social and/or biologicalrepulsion as rationalized by her? Goldiggers are repulsed by what at an adamant conscious level? All women are repulsed by hobos, bums or transients as what opposite? Rock star groupies are attracted by what at a conscious adamant level? Persistence works on what type of personality? What do they have trouble saying? Persistence fails on what type of personality? What do they get angry when made to say rather than say it? Well I hope this has been a helpful guide. The MAIN thing was the enlightenment of your mind as my attempt. The use of a proper scientific rather than wild method of analysis has long been absent. My goal was to instruct you in some fundamentals of attraction and inner game I’ve come to understand. As well as, give you reasonable examples of how this method of analysis could become a fundamental tool for you in all first basic facts. Surely induction can be used once you yourself hav experienced results and failures from a particular instance of like kind many times over. ONLY then is it rational to attempt in anything as complicated as 2 humans interacting. Yet with inference it is made quite simple. By the way for the science nutts out there, NO I’m not claiming to have invented this way of analysis. I’ve seen it in several scientific methods as well as several psychological texts of the older pre self help schools. Also I think Einstein used something similar in the theory of relativity coming to be, only starting from 0 rather than basic first facts, unless you suppose he started out knowing there are numbers which is inferred. It went a bit over my head but I got the gist of it. I figure if its good enough for him to use in creating a bomb to kill hundreds of thousands, then harnessed by a dumb hillbilly like me can easily be adapted to help guys get their pecker wet, now get out there and start fuckin!
she at her mom house and she sleeping over that night I said ok think we didn’t wont to be there bsceuae of the fight and some of my friends where coming over my phone lost call and then a few min later i get a txt saying she moving back in with her mom and that we are over I call her up and ask her what going on and she start to say she does feel happy anymore so me like a dum *** get mad and we start to fight- Fast forward I get off work and she come to the house with her mother and the friend O yeah did i say i don’t like the friend and me and her start arguing and her mom jump in the fight I was so piss that i kick the mom out of my house and the friend I really don’t like some1 call the cop and she take some of her stuff and leave we fight for a at lease to days and then we start to clam down arguing that the back story now her where am at I still love her and I miss my son we are working out day I keep him and day she has him but I really want them home with me there my family and when I talk about us she get mad and say it over but she txt me and i call her some time she at work and his to go to publix or wal-mart and I will go there and we talk and some what play around like old time but I see the way she look at me that look when we frist started dating but when ever I talk to her about us or tell her how I feel she get mad and say it over between us I can take the mix sign anymore I think I read all the how to get your ex back site and blog but no one his advice on a 8yr relationship lot of the are 1 to 2yr’sso what do I do back off and try later or should I give up and move on I really love her and I don’t no what to do