So what PUSH-PULL does is ENGAGES her sexually, and then DISENGAGES her sexually, over and over and over. It’s not like if you say “you’re my new girlfriend.. let’s make plans to go out.. let’s make plans to be together.. let’s be together”, which would be PULL, PULL, PULL, PULL. She would RESIST that strategy 9 times out of 10. By doing PUSH – PULL, her limbic brain is ENGAGED, but then DISENGAGED before she has a chance to RESIST. The result will be like a FISH, who you reel in, let fight and let out slack, reel in more, let fight more, reel in more, etc etc etc etc..
It gets her HOT, but the PUSH disarms her RESISTANCE, before you proceed to PULL again.
KEEP DOING THIS AS LONG AS NECESSARY until she SHIT TESTS you. Look up the “dissecting shit test passing measures” post, to INTERNALIZE the STRUCTURE of passing a shit test in DETAIL. The short of it is:
1) AGREE to the shit test
2) CREATIVELY MISINTERPRET the shit test as her saying she WANTS YOU
2a) In some situations, tell her that despite that, she still cannot have you
unless she meets x-qualification
HER: “you’re a player”
YOU: “yeah… so what is it about players that turns you on so much”
1) AGREE to the shit test
2) Use CALLBACK humour to misinterpret your actions in a funny way
HER: Do you plan this stuff?
YOU: “yeah.. I even plan to go out and meet little POWERPUFF girls (or whatever NEG you used earlier.. CALLBACK the neg you used earlier)
The POINT of this, is that you KEEP JOKING that you are together – apart –together – apart, until you ENGAGE her LIMBIC BRAIN, which she will REACT by SHIT TESTING YOU. Since you INTERNALIZE how to PASS the shit tests techniques, and you pass with PERFECT SCORE, she will become aroused very quickly, and attempt to GET RAPPORT with you. You will know that she is at her BOILING point when she gives you a SIGN. A SIGN is like when she says “what’s your name?”, or “what do you do?”, or “where do you come from?” She is LEANING IN, and showing strong interest… Wide eyes, open body language, facing you, etc etc etc..
So that is my personal favourite way to PROJECT VALUE – being COCKY PLAYFUL.
However, this is not the ONLY WAY to project value. A second way would to be learn STRONG SS/Patterning skills, and lead her imagination to all sorts of wild and arousing places. Eliciting past sexual excitement and pushing her through those states. She anchours those feelings to YOU. Personally I don’t think it’s overly effective for the younger party girls that I deal with, but it IS a feasible plan. Apparently a good way with Asian girls (as reported by TPUA, Maniac_High, Formhandle, and other skilled guys)
A third way is to learn magic/mentalism/gimmicks/routines/stories, that INTRIGUE and FASCINATE the chick. Basically, this is using PERSONALITY CONVEYANCE. You could also just have a great sense of humour, and be good at conveying that in front of chicks.