The Comprehensive Ramblings of a PUA, pt. 16

So back to the topic of MID GAME, and SETTING THE FRAME. Women are adaptable and fluid. What does this MEAN???

Well when you roll up on the chick for the meet, and you detect that she’s gone cold, you have to adapt by ASSERTING the frame that you want, for the duration of the interaction.

If she’s being difficult, do NOT try to LOGICALLY explain to her what you’re doing. I remember when I first started PU, I started EXPLAINING to a chick that I was meeting up with how all chicks would give it up for the right guy, and that she needed to get with the program, and shit like that. Or explaining why you’re better than her boyfriend, or that this get-together “really is” a hookup and not “just coffee” like she’s trying to say it is, or explaining WHY this was going to be a hookup and not a “date”, or explaining why you don’t spend $$$ on the first date (that last one is the most COMMON mistake of new PUAs – verbally explaining why you won’t spend $$$… hahah I’ve done that, and its LAME ASS.. it will NEVER WORK).

NEVER explain to the uncooperative chick what it is that you are doing. Just DO it. Make it “just happen”, despite the no-sex intentions that she had going in.

Some basic strategies, on how to RE-ASSERT the hook-up/non-date frame:

WHEN YOU SEE HER, INITIATE PLAYFUL KINO IMMEDIATELY:

• run up and spin-hug her (credit no9)
• roll up, take her right hand with your right hand, her left hand with your left hand (so your hands are x-crossed), and TWIRL her around
• roll up, and shake hands, but pull your hand UP and TWIST your wrist, so she has to spin (credit Craig)
• sneak up, and tap her wrong shoulder so she looks around for you.. then sort of bump her when she sees you
• steal something from her and make her wrestle you for it
• flick something at her so she attacks you
• mercy fight

TRY TO TAKE HER TO AN EXCITING PLACE, THAT IS COST FREE.. NOT EVEN ONE CENT:

• find a strip with sexy/outrageous clothes, and try them on and tease eachother and play-wrestle
• meet her at a park, where you can play frisbee or rollerblade or iceskate, and you can tackle her
• teach her one basic-simplistic mentalism illusion, go around FOOLING people with it
• have a funny adventure together.. go around asking where you can find a cheap hotel as a joke (credit Dreamweaver – I never actually tried this yet, but think it would be good for chicks with a CERTAIN type of outgoing personality)

REMEMBER THAT TALKING ABOUT PROBLEMS IS NOT RAPPORT:

• remember this ANALOGY – if a chick is banging herself on the head with a HAMMER, and she is BLEEDING, and she says “my head hurts”, you can respond with either A) “stop hitting yourself on the head with a hammer, and it will stop bleeding”, or B) “that sounds hard.. I’m sure that you’ll find a way to make it stop hurting though…. ANYWAY, check THIS out..” – ALWAYS CHOOSE ANSWER B.
• rapport is meant to establish a COMMON MODEL OF THE WORLD, NOT to establish you as her EMOTIONAL TAMPON.
• NEVER try to get rapport with HER.. Keep ATTRACTING her, until SHE tries to get rapport. NEVER ask her questions about herself, until SHE intiates that conversation. Again, this is for HOT HSE chicks, NOT for LSE chicks, who you should just focus on telling them that they are trash, and that you won’t judge them for it, so they should stick with YOU – conforming to their self-loathing beliefs, etc etc..
• if she complains, BRIEFLY show some very light empathy, and CHANGE the subject BACK to attraction generating stuff (tickling, teasing, ANYTHING other than that crap).. AGAIN, NOT for LSE chicks or dumbass UGs, who you should just listen, tell them that they’re trash, and should stick with you.. that’s ALL it takes for these LSE chicks..

NEVER LET THE DATE GO “LJBF”-FEEL. IT ALWAYS HAS TO BE CHARGED IN SOME WAY.