The Comprehensive Ramblings of a PUA, pt. 17

More on Frame setting and seduction


  • try to avoid long drives before you’ve had sex, unless you’re good at macking while driving
  • try to have her meet you somewhere, where you can start gaming her IMMEDIATELY
  • if you’re just meeting her at a club, and she agrees to go home with you, don’t let her get away from you or disengage her emotional states.. She will go back to her friends, be dissuaded, and flake.
  • if you pick her up at her house, attempt the “NEWSPAPER INK CLOSE”, explained later in this post.
  • the SECOND you see the interaction going QUIET or STALLING, tickle her, steal something, do ANYTHING to keep it charged at ALL COSTS. Stick your tongue out at her, -whatever-.. do SOMETHING
  • a GREAT strategy for when you STALL, is to use the “awkward pause” as a time to PHASE SHIFT. Just look DEEP into her eyes. She’ll say “what… whaaaaaat..”, and you just look at her all confident and knowingly, then either project sexual state Gunwitch style, or run a phase shift ROUTINE.
  • as an absolute LAST RESORT, have some gimmicks prepared. AVOID THIS, but if its massively stalling, it can provide FODDER to neg her and tease her with, when she discloses certain things about herself throughout the course of the exercise.

-**do things that CONFUSE her, such as saying she can’t have you, and kissing her. Saying she’s a “DORK” or “DWEEB”, and tickling her.


  • when you drop a mega-bomb pattern on her, step back and let the experience SOAK IN.. don’t push her over the edge and make yourself come across UNGENUINE -constantly go BACK and FORTH… be a STATE MANIPULATION MASTER.. a fucking PUPPET MASTER.. push her through states like a fucking PRO.. OBSERVE when she’s at a boiling point, and do SOMETHING ELSE.. go back and forth, back and forth..  keep her on her toes.. don’t be predictable and run a 2 hour patterning session, or 2 hours of C&F.. don’t let yourself into a RUT of fluff talk.. go back and forth, left and right, up and down.. have STRATEGIES on how to do that..


  • if she’s a party-girl type, then check out other chicks in front of her, without making any excuses for it. When she shit-tests you, DENY it in a FUNNY way, that is basically a shit-testing passing measure. It has to be FUNNY, and you don’t take her accusations SERIOUSLY.
  • do funny things, like chatting up OTHER chicks – making them LAUGH.. when you meet other chicks, do like 1000 little funny kisses on their hands.. “mwa mwa mwa mwa mwa” on some new chicks hand, so she’ll GIGGLE around you, and SOCIAL PROOF you for the chick you’re with (for HSE chicks only).. Show her you are DESIRABLE, and have the ability to WALK.
  • Check HER out LIBERALLY, at points when its GOING WELL. So don’t do it when she’s still being uncooperative, but do it when she’s starting to want you.  Even check her out, and joke that she can’t have you.
  • make it your TOP PRIORITY to enlist the help of PIVOTS, who can help you with particularly stubborn chicks.. Basically, what you want to do, is to do what the chicks who YOU wanted back your AFC days did to YOU, but in REVERSE. Have chicks that are ORBITERS, and who will do ANYTHING to keep your friendship.  Talk to them like you’re a FAG, but at the same time make them feel SAFE around you. Have female FRIENDS, who LOVE you and would do ANYTHING for you. When a chick is stubborn, have them roll up on you while you’re out, and hug you and look all jealous at the chick that you’re with. If you don’t CURRENTLY have a pivot, then LJBF the next chick that you go out with, and start CULTIVATING a LEGIT friendship with her. You can also use her for CLUBS, so that when you PU chicks from clubs, they SAW direct EVIDENCE that she isn’t the only chicks that you are in contact with.
  • if absolutely necessary use stuff, like CPowles shit about “all my relationships start passionately” to REFRAME the traditional-dating mentality.  Make it clear that you want things “NATURAL”, and that you don’t appreciate “society dictating your actions, and that you go in with NO AGENDA, and just let whatever happens happen.. does SHE have an agenda??? :)” Follow this with tickling and such, to keep her IN STATE. Still, this is to be avoided, since it is PREFERABLE just to seem MYSTERIOUS and that you don’t JUSTIFY yourself. It’s actually better to just have a knowing look, and NOT REACT to her bullshit.  Still, this doesn’t always work, so fall back on these strategies.

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